There’s an app for that, and Lucy Kenner’s future self is using it to send her texts!
Lucy, played by Shiri Appleby (“Life Unexpected”) has a secure job, great friends, and a longtime boyfriend—but deep down, she knows he’s not the one.
I’m not looking to be in a relationship right now, but I’m only human and I have needs.
Also, because the expectation is that he will probably be seeing other people, you need to be able to be 100% OK with this or don’t attempt to have a FWB arrangement in the first place. Being that you can expect he’ll be seeing other people (or at least, that he’s open to it at any given point), it’s important that you keep your options wide open too.
I want you to get what you want for the greatest good of everyone involved. It’s an arrangement that you define from the get-go as a purely sexual arrangement…
and when it ends, it needs to be clean without loose ends (for you or for him).
As a girl in your thirties, you are past or moving out of your most eligible years, and should adapt your game accordingly.
Other women will get most - if not all - of the "easy" attention from men, so you need to narrow your focus and seek attention only from the men that matter.