I am gritting my teeth, and it'll be about a month. Once we are settled, I'm hoping to get DD and I to do the freedom programme.
Since the moment I got pregnant I found myself effectively doing all the chores.
But he never cut down his mortgage overpayments, cleared the morgage and is now building up his savings, while I have no savings having paid his morgage. The DCs and I walk on eggshells wondering about what mood he'll be in on getting home. But the incident that started me thinking about the relationship and it's effect on the DCs was late last year, when DC1 and I were in the kitchen with him, and he told her to stop "screaming".
She wasn't but her voice can get high when she's excited.
She spoke again in that high voice and he yelled at her.
She scuttled to the other end of the kitchen before i could intervene and he grabbed her arm hard enough to leave a mark. Since then, there's been a little edge of aggression towards her which he doesn't show to our DS.