Of course, there are men out there that will disagree but the vast majority of us are scared stiff of the future.
A week in advance, or possibly a month, is usually as far as we are willing to commit after a few weeks or even months of dating.
Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.
A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.
She only wants to talk about relationships and girl stuff anyway. In the meantime you can flirt with the other girls on the dance floor.
Buy her a nice meal, so that she knows what she owes you in exchange for the meal.
Take it slowly and don’t rush into spending every evening with your new man. Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.Forget Facebook – If you want to let your friends know how much you loved that latte on the way to work this morning, or share a photo of the most adorable kitten playing a guitar that’s well and good.He will want his own space and really appreciate you if you give it to him.A final note – Commitment scares the hell out of us.If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner.Retain a bit of mystery and avoid sending him a friend request until you’ve got to know each other better. Pay attention to the introductions – We guys are extremely territorial (even though we may not know it) and once we’ve come to the conclusion that this is the woman we want, we’ll start saying things like “This is my girlfriend, Sarah”.Once he has started calling you his girlfriend, babe, woman, or even his other half, he won’t stop.