Read: 10 Steps to Attract Authentic Love Secondly, in employing these fear-based tactics, you self-sabotage yourself.Because not only would you attract the fear-based people, you keep out genuine daters—the ones you are truly looking for.Firstly, seduction tactics (not all, but many) tend to be fear-based in nature. Because they focus on lower-level actions to draw attention and elicit interest rather than a heart-level connection.They also often involve manipulation and ingenuity to a certain extent (e.g.Within the first few minutes of meeting each other, the chemistry was instant. In between sobs and tears, she explained the reasoning behind her evasive behavior in the past two months.At the end of the date, Jane was eager to see John again. She related the advice her friend, A, had given her, and the rationale behind it.
Let’s take for example, the following tactics that many seduction and dating books, trainers, and coaches, usually teach girls: …and so on.
I have no doubt that there are girls who get marvelous results from applying said tactics, just as there are guys who successfully win the hearts of ladies from sticking to the rules of the seduction and dating book.
For these guys and girls, they might have had huge difficulty in dating prior to learning said rules.
After much dating, Jane was ready to look for a serious, long-term relationship and perhaps settle down. After a few months of meeting incompatible matches on and feeling exasperated with dating in general, Jane received a message from John one day on Match.
At this point, Jane was open to giving any good quality prospect a shot, for she was tired of dates that went nowhere.