To top it all off, he said he would call Lorraine if things didn’t work out!
How much time and effort did he really give his current relationship? And who in the world wants to be his sloppy second?
Most guys will call after 3-4 days IF they like you. I don’t even know anything about your fight but I can guarantee that you did at least one thing wrong, maybe it’s the fact that you overreacted, or maybe its the fact that you haven’t really been attentive to his needs over the last couple of weeks. Wait a few hours, or at most, a day, and text or call him to apologize for your part in the fight.
– tell Lorraine the truth about why he couldn’t pursue her right now. Yet Kristy views this through a prism of her own pain and mistrust.
She forgets that EVERYONE online is dating someone else. Would you rather be “right” like Kristy or would you rather “get what you want” like Lorraine?
Always remember, that rejection and breakups cause a temporary enhancement of your desire for a person.
In other words, for 2 weeks – a month you WILL be deceptively attracted to your ex, fight through it and don’t let it fool you.