After that weekend, he never contacted me or we haven’t talked.Not until the holidays when I sent a greeting for the holidays.He has a habit of responding late or worst not responding at all to my messages and he has his reasons. Been there recently and if i put my logical head on I realise hes got lots of Issues.But, I’m still not use to it and it worries me every time. Im very upset but Im trying really hard to work on myself and confidence and self esteem I hadnt relised how men and women think so differently and Im 60 Regards xlizx My guy has been incognito for a little over two weeks now. So last time i heard from him was a non response to my messages.I’m tired to talking about why he vanishing, many times i talked but he keep vanishing and come back. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.I remained calm and neutral and respectful as I wanted to retain my dignity.The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run. When a guy disappears, it’s almost inevitable to feel a flood of self-doubt.Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would. You didn’t do anything wrong and you are “good enough” to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasn’t it.
They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you.He replied he was just busy and sure he was, he was full of lame excuses and denials and I believe some lies as well.He never once showed me any of his past warmth such as reaching to touch me etc, while I was there.I know plenty of gorgeous, smart, funny, successful, amazing women who have had the vanishing act pulled on them and it didn’t make them any less gorgeous, smart, amazing, etc.A guy can lose interest for any number of reasons and oftentimes it has more to do with him than with you.If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.He responded a day after thanking me for the simple gift I gave him. Then yesterday, I shoot him a message on facebook asking for a certain schedule of an event.Until today he has not responded, though I see him always online on Facebook.The worst possible thing you can do is take it personally and start beating yourself up over it.This will eat away at your self-esteem and will repel any new potential suitors that might come along.